As for my concern, first I would like to say I really love these glasses!  They are awesome.

Secondly, my questions.

  When using the female connector that was provided with my glasses, my Wii connects fine.  On the other hand my XBOX 360 doesn't.  I read in the forums about the female to female connection cable, but don't understand how it is supposed to work.  Could someone clarify for me what I need to do to make my 360 connect to my glasses?

I would like to report that I have found a way to connect my glasses to the xbox 360!

If you have an older system like mine (without the HDMI connection).  Then you need to flip the switch on your video out connector to TV instead of HDTV first.  Then turn on your glasses, and XBOX. 

 Also, why under 'Downloads'  are there only updates, and software for the VR920?  Are the rest of us being shunned for not purchasing them?